The only lift I ever liked was pre-EAS RRC rears in the front and 220lbs (same as OME MD) rears in the back.
I have OME HD and OME shocks and really dislike the ride which I blame on the springs. Chicky, my previous D90, had stock springs and bilstein shocks and I like that a lot (if someone has some decent shape stock springs and wants to come and do the swap in my garage, they can have my OME HD springs for free in trade) and my LWB has bilstein shocks and stock coil conversion land rover springs and it is similarly great riding. Also, other than the net increase in ground clearance, HD springs actually are worse off road than stock as stock allows the tires to stay on the ground better.
*not legal advice*