No Start fixed despite myself.
After spending hours reading all the threads on relays/ignitions/fuel pumps (thanks to all of you who contribute so much information) the truck finally started tonight.
The Key in the ignition lost it's spring action and would crank if I held the key just right. So, removed and replaced the lock cylinder / switch ($400 stealer / $75 prostreetonline.com !!!), still no start. (I also opened up the old switch and reset the springs and ball bearing, so the old one works now too).
Check fuses inside and under hood, three times.
After three nights of fishing with a mirror, found the 2 relays up behind the A/C (1994). Called all over town and found them. Replaced and no start.
Checked fuses again, this time I pulled all the fuses despite what the Prince of Darkness had them labled and sure enough, LIGHTS was burnt out. Swapped it and truck started right up.
So, as others have said over and over, check the fuses, all of them!
Oh, the cylinder does not have the 2 wires on the top, I too am guessing it's just a key / door dinger thingy.
Now, with newly installed Rancho 9000s, OME SS and ProComp MTs, it's on to the desert!!!!