Adrian - good meeting up today. That little 90 of yours is a nice rig! Looks great all black. Need to meet up again for but for a beer this time
Not sure if this helps but I weighed my SSR's with the Wolf's and they come out to 105lbs on a cheapo bathroom scale. Funny those 35" Goodyears weigh the same. I was surprised by how heavy those 235's felt on the narrow steelies. Must be the wheels. Might be worth a weighing them just to see.
The SSR's with Wolfs looked really good on your truck - actually reminded me of the pic of Red90's but black vs red (obviously). The Wolfs would be a good option as I don't think you'll be able to run alloys with those axle shaft ends and the backspacing is damn near perfect.
Holler if you have any more questions or if you want to take a spin in my truck to see how it feels with 285's.