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Old October 22nd, 2008, 10:42 AM
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I just bought a house around a month ago in South Pasadena, been installing central air in it and I just got it rented out. Been busy working out at night, partying like 3-4 nights a week, trying to meet women, collecting numbers, planning my costume for this porn halloween party, hanging out with a circle of single doods looking for poon with them, scouring craiglist for (deals on rover parts not hookers) ahaha. Thats about. I should start a seperate thread on how many MLFS i've met and turned down during the last 3 months, its crazy, I mean hot hot mommas where you can't even tell have childen. oh well.
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Worst part is, I'm suppost to be in Vegas next month to bang this hot Canadian girl I met in Vegas and if I'm hanging around this chick I don't know how im gonna pull it off. To make matters worse, I met this hot photographer/bartender in Vancouver a month ago who's comming down to LA to see me with her girlfriend who is a Guess model because they don't know anyone here and want to party with me. Well we'll see I guess, I'll keep you guys updated on what happens. By the way, I don't know what I want anymore, sex yes, relationship yes, being single and meeting as many girls as I can yes, I confuse myself sometimes. Anyway, thanks for the advice, I know what I have to do.
IDK, not to sound too shitty, but this girl sounds like a good match for you. Maybe not long term material but I'd say you two could hang for a while more given your lifestyles.

I'm just 3 years older than you but I seem to live a completely different world. Married 11 years and 3 kids and of course the dog. Could be a Northeast/Jersey Shore vs West Coast/LA thing as well. Sounds like you have a lot of fun and so do I. Different stroks and all.

Best of luck and keep the stories coming. They are certainly an interesting read in an MTV/Entourage/Maxim magazine sort of way.

PS. Reading some of the responses, I really surprised I haven't seen PIITB said.
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Old October 22nd, 2008, 10:57 AM
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No offense Neil, but there is another person in that "relationship" that needs to grow up.

You are not really asking advice as much as trying to tell us how awesome your porn star dating, drug party fueled, teenage boys fantasy, life is.

It sounds empty and sad to me and I hope you grow out of it before it bites you in the ass hard.



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Old October 22nd, 2008, 11:13 AM
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IDK, not to sound too shitty, but this girl sounds like a good match for you. Maybe not long term material but I'd say you two could hang for a while more given your lifestyles.

I'm just 3 years older than you but I seem to live a completely different world. Married 11 years and 3 kids and of course the dog. Could be a Northeast/Jersey Shore vs West Coast/LA thing as well. Sounds like you have a lot of fun and so do I. Different stroks and all.

Best of luck and keep the stories coming. They are certainly an interesting read in an MTV/Entourage/Maxim magazine sort of way.

PS. Reading some of the responses, I really surprised I haven't seen PIITB said.
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Old October 22nd, 2008, 11:29 AM
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I agree with KevinNY, up above in message #43. I am willing to say it. Just having gone through the miracle of a second son, and being very happily married, I would not trade lives.....

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BUT - Neil does make for an interesting thread.

I have known a few alcoholics, including a family member, and there is a chance if you get close, they will rip your life apart. You don't need this.

It sounds like you are very happy with your fantasy life style. Why rock the boat with this girl?

My opinion - Move on.

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Old October 22nd, 2008, 12:24 PM
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No offense to you Kevin, but not everyone needs to live a 'traditional lifestyle'. It can be said that people who get married do it to follow status quo, out of fear of being alone and for financial reasons.

Not everyone has a peachy marriage, hence why there's a high rate of divorce...but I digress.

As Don stated correctly IMO, different strokes...

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No offense Neil, but there is another person in that "relationship" that needs to grow up.

You are not really asking advice as much as trying to tell us how awesome your porn star dating, drug party fueled, teenage boys fantasy, life is.

It sounds empty and sad to me and I hope you grow out of it before it bites you in the ass hard.



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Old October 22nd, 2008, 01:42 PM
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No offense Neil, but there is another person in that "relationship" that needs to grow up.

You are not really asking advice as much as trying to tell us how awesome your porn star dating, drug party fueled, teenage boys fantasy, life is.

It sounds empty and sad to me and I hope you grow out of it before it bites you in the ass hard.



Yes I said it, but many others were thinking it.
Hey its cool I'm not knocking anyones lifestyle, I had what you had (minus the kids) for 13 years. It was great but like maxx predicted, it ended, abruptly without any tumultous periods. I realize that nothing is set in stone, but I'm going to party it up without no regrets because I already lost 13 years, at least thats the way I see it. I envy you guys with the family and the kids, really I do. But I don't think its for me, at least not at the point I'm in at my life right now. I need to party til I'm 40 and only then will I think I'll be ready to settle down. Life is too short to live thinking I shoulda coulda woulda this and that. And I think a lot of you guys will enjoy reading about the crazy things I go through, seriously I see and go through a lot of funny stuff and it would be a shame to not give someone a chuckle about it. JimC lets hit the weight room!

Oh and I told her that I think its best we be friends for now and also that I won't try to touch her if we hang out, that way I'm not involved with her anymore, moreso a neutral party now. She didn't say anything really, just sorta agreed so I guess shes still digesting it but were suppost to go to the exotic erotic ball this saturday in San Fransico, its the craziest halloween party in the US where anything goes, and I mean anything so hopefully I'll have pictures to show you guys. I have VIP tickets and 3 rooms comp from Perry man (the founder of the party himself) and going with 3 escorts and of course, my wine savvy friend. When I brought up the party her mood changed and got all excited about it, (even though her court date is on the 19th) she is suppost to wear something revealing and slutty so I'll get pics of her for you guys. On with the show and thanks for the help everyone.
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Old October 22nd, 2008, 02:23 PM
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Neil,

Your threads are entertaining - as as far as I have seen - there are none others like it. And you have a great love for your Rovers - which we all do!

It is funny to think that 20 years from now when you are married again, with 4 kids and helping them with homework and all............that all of us will be able to say we knew Neil when he was taking cell phone pictures of some passed out chick in the back of his LR3!

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Old October 22nd, 2008, 02:44 PM
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I hope you guys are not saying that just because someone is not married with kids and likes to party they should feel like they are leading an unfullfilled or nonproductive life. There is no road map in life and people should be able to navigate any way they want as long as other people don't get hurt.

My wife and I made a decision to not have kids (we are now both in our 40's) and we party and travel when ever we want. (We went to Africa last November with one months notice.) My family was concerned about the lack of kids at first but now after 10 years they have finally accepted it. I have had several married friends with kids who are happy about having kids but sometimes they wish they had more freedom.

Anyway, Neil have fun, but drop that nutjob!!!! It seems like it is easy for you to find girls so why risk having your livelhood ruined because of some loose cannon. You are not going to marry this girl so I would move on to new adventures.
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Love The Stories. I Did The Same After My Divorce 8-9 Yrs Ago. But, I Did Find "the Right One" And Settled Down. Enjoy Yourself And Have Fun. Perhaps She Is Interested Is Some Simple Casual S_x. I Would Just Flat Out Just Ask Her. No Strings....... She Sounds Like She'd Be Interested. Just Make Sure She Doesn't Pass Out First. Good Luck Rock Star!
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It is funny to think that 20 years from now when you are married again, with 4 kids and helping them with homework and all............that all of us will be able to say we knew Neil when he was taking cell phone pictures of some passed out chick in the back of his LR3!

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Old October 22nd, 2008, 03:23 PM
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I just got this cell phone pic from this girl a few minutes ago, that works at this retail store in downtown LA. She claims shes also an aspiring fashion designer and some singer in a local band. I've been talking and flirting to her everytime I buy jeans and shirts there and last Sunday when I was there, I said to her "damn I wish I could see whats under those jeans" and she replied "mabye you will" Just uploaded from my phone, now I'm gonna try to get her to come out on a date with me. Wish me luck.
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A guy told me one time "don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat from around the corner"

Ron is very wise, you should listen to him.

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I just got this cell phone pic from this girl a few minutes ago, that works at this retail store in downtown LA. She claims shes also an aspiring fashion designer and some singer in a local band. I've been talking and flirting to her everytime I buy jeans and shirts there and last Sunday when I was there, I said to her "damn I wish I could see whats under those jeans" and she replied "mabye you will" Just uploaded from my phone, now I'm gonna try to get her to come out on a date with me. Wish me luck.
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All I can say is Georgia is sooooo boring after reading this thread.
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Neil,

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I need to read this whole thread but I think I'll have the same conclusion.. Neil is full of win!

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Nothing wrong with her being older than you... i'm 36, my partner is 38, she calls me her toyboy!

When i was 25, i was dating a couple of women, one was 40, the other 45! (but heck, they taught me a few things!)

Your one sounds like she might be trying it on... do you have proof she's had 3 DUI's? maybe she's just trying to butter you up for the $11k then do a runner???

by the look of the phone pics, i'd just bang her and then run.


But i have no morals.... :-)
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Neil;

I'm all for living a bit over the top, it can be a hell of a ride. But the case described here may have gone over the top, past the ledge, down the hill, and is falling off a cliff like Wiley Coyote on his latest run after the road-runner.

Now, one thing that usually happens with Mr. Coyote is that some big rock follows him down and splats on the valley floor. What does the Coyote do? He gets up, follows the same path to destruction, and falls down again. But every time, he takes a different rock down with him.

Don't be the latest rock.

Be the roadrunner. Stop at the edge of the cliff, wiggle your tongue, go "meep meep", and leave a dust cloud where you once stood.

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This thread rules.

Where else can you get an Animal House ref., a Road Runner ref., a ref. to one of the best movies ever made "Heat" AND pix of hot chicks in one thread.

Keep it coming!
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